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'Tricks' and 'gimmicks' in Senate healthcare bill

poll vote buttonHealthcare policy expert Grace Marie Turner says there are details in the Senate healthcare bill that will frighten everyone. Accounting "gimmicks," says Senator Roger Wicker, are among those details.

Senator Leahy Unable to Say Where Constitution Authorizes Congress to Order Americans to Buy Health Insurance
Senate Judiciary Chairman Patrick Leahy (D-Vt.) would not say what part of the Constitution grants Congress the power to force every American to buy health insurance--as all of the health care overhaul bills currently do... Read More

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If you don’t want your marriage to end in divorce, but you don’t know how to keep it together, then our Marriage Restoration Intensives are the solution you are looking for. The Marriage Restoration Intensive is based on over a decade of intense clinical research by the Smalleys proven to increase marital satisfaction and significantly decrease your chances of divorce.

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The Secret Power of Sweat

Recently I saw another report about how male sweat causes positive responses in women. The latest research was published by the University of California. In testing the effects of male sweat on women they once again recorded positive hormonal changes for the majority of them who were exposed to its smell

Have A Willingness to Change

Getting life to fix itself after you made a mess of it does not come without a steep price. We can not unscramble eggs but we add things in there to make it taste better. It would be nice to find the perfect solution to fixing any problem immediately and never having to deal with it any more! The fact of t&e matter is, is that we have to face the mess we created and determine to add the right ingredients to make things better.

What are those “Right Ingredients?”

  •  - a willingness to change
  •  - a truly repentant heart
  •  - admittance of guilt and wrong doing
  •  - a commitment to change 

The list can go on and on but u think this is a good starting place for now. Although, when you start doing these things I listed above, do not expect things to go your way, right away! The reason why is because you have

cause pain and ill feelings that someone now has to contend with within themselves. So give it time and stay committed to the process and never look back. Just keep moving forward as best as you can and of course it’s ok to sit and rest for a bit, but don't stay there to long.


by Cheryl A. Rowen
Author of "When 1+1=3: Discovering God’s Plan for You and Your Stepfamily"


So what does make a marriage last a lifetime? I once heard this question asked to a couple celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary. The husband simply replied, "Going out to dinner twice a week". "That’s it?" asked the interviewer. "Yes," answered the husband, "I go on Tuesdays and my wife goes on Thursdays". Surely there must be a better way!

With an alarming 60% of second marriages ending in divorce, stepfamilies today need a way to fight back! Many of us who remarry find ourselves focusing on issues that are urgent to the daily ‘operation’ of the stepfamily:

  • Establishing the carpool schedule;
  • Defining roles of the stepparent in discipline;
  • Establishing a relationship with the stepchildren;
  • Dealing with a former spouse and potentially different parenting styles.

Although the health of our marriage may not be "urgent" (especially if newly married), it certainly is a necessary component to a successful stepfamily, and one that is often ignored.

Hebrews 13:4 instructs us to "Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage"

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Communication – it’s complicated!

By Gary Smalley

28 October 2009

Effective communication is a complex business. If you go into it expecting things to flow easily and without a lot of effort, you’re just kidding yourself. I recommend that you adjust your expectations from “simple” to “complex,” especially in three key areas: 1. Expect problems and misunderstandings. Even the best communicators sometimes fail to understand others, [...]

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Why is Marriage So Difficult?

By Gary Smalley

20 November 2009

Why Is Marriage So Difficult? By Gary Smalley Let’s begin with the problem marriage presents. Two independent people are trying to join together to make one unified team. Marriage is all about giving up your own rights and wants. The reason it fails so often is that one or both partners won’t give up their goals, [...

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Question: I’m losing sleep over my marriage problems

30 October 2009

Q: My marriage struggles are keeping me up at night. I so bad want to roll over and tell my husband to go sleep in the other room. He is clueless how repulsed I am by his words and behavior. I am tired of losing sleep over him. My frustration is at an all time [...]

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The Purpose of Wealth See How Lenders See Your FICO Score

Mon, Jun. 08 2009 11:17 AM MST

And you shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power to get wealth, that he may establish His covenant which He swore to your fathers, as it is this day. Deuteronomy 8:18 Read More

What is Biblically Responsible Investing?

By Mark Minnella Jr.

Mon, Aug. 11 2008 10:12 AM MST

Biblically Responsible Investing (BRI) is the act of abstaining from investing in companies that produce or promote certain products or lifestyles that conflict with the morals taught in the bible. 

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A Debate: Is the Bible Bogus? Are the Gospels Frauds? You Decide.

View this debate about the Bible between a noted atheist and a respected biblical scholar. What do you think?  << MORE >>